Wednesday, December 30, 2009

While the Merry Bells Keep Ringing


I guess I took a bit of a blog hiatus this month. It was an odd December. I didn’t feel the holly jolly elf until like 3 days before Christmas. And let me tell you, it’s hard to get all your elfing done in 3 days.

Even then, this Christmas felt different for me. It was more reflective. I thought a lot about the word “believe.” We have it on many of our Christmas Decorations, and I found myself making a mental list of all the things I believe in, Christmasey and otherwise.

I believe:
-That a baby was born in a stable. He is the Son of God. Angels sang. Shepherds came. It’s not just a sweet story
-In the spirit of Santa Clause
-In the blessings that come from giving and sharing
-That saying my prayers, reading my scriptures, and going to church brings me great peace and happiness
-That families are forever
-In God’s timing, He knows more than I do
-That life is made up of moments, not events (I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again)
-That my body is a miracle
-That music can heal the soul, again and again

I’ve also been thinking a lot about simplicity. My overriding New Years resolution is to simplify. I want less stuff in my house. Less nonsense floating around in my brain. I want simple movement and exercise to be a part of my everyday schedule. Easy homemade meals eaten around the table. I want to love others in a non-complicated way. I want projects and art to be fun and renewing instead of complicated.

Doesn’t that sound nice?

Instead of journaling the pictures, and since I’m enjoying lists today, I’m going to pre-write a bit of what our holiday season entailed, and then I will let the photos speak for themselves.

-Frankie saw Santa at the Jubilee of Trees. He asked him for “the Fire Car.” That would be Snot Rod from the movie Cars. Santa was a little confused about this, so I had to explain. And Santa’s elves had a hard time tracking down this particular model, but were able to pull through. He also intermittently asked for a train.

-A Mathis family tradition, that my Mom picked up while my parents were stationed with the Military in Germany, is advent calendar treats. The way Mom did it, and that I am now, is that the child wakes up every morning and there’s a treat or a small toy in a special place. (Every day in December until Christmas.) Frankie loved it this year. He would remind us every night “go put something in my box!” He got some pretty cool stuff, including an Ikea train set I forgot to give him for his birthday, a new car, a puzzle, books, a Little People Nativity I had scored an awesome deal on, and of course, treats.

-One night we drove around and checked out the Christmas lights. Frankie is a big fan of the blow-up lawn decorations. Me, not so much.

-We made gingerbread houses for FHE. It was sort of a disaster because I hadn’t pre-prepared. But good fun, anyway.

-Jeremy’s Grandma Caroline came for her annual visit, and this year she got to fly right into the St. George airport, so we went and met here there. Frankie held a sign welcoming his “Mama Hat.” (Grandma Pat.)

-Frankie wore a festive apron, and helped me bake Christmas cookies for friends and neighbors. If there’s one thing I should have cut out of the 3 days of elf cheer, it was the sugar cookies. I’ve learned my lesson, next year something more simple if I don’t get to it earlier.

-On Christmas Eve morning Frankie’s advent treat was a present to open (a new game.) By the time I made it downstairs he was started on his 3rd (unauthorized) present. Oi.

-We spent Christmas Eve with Jeremy’s family. We had a lovely dinner and gifts. Frankie definitely took the prize for the most presents. Our family was given a quarter of a cow from Jeremy’s parents. It will live in frozen glory at their house except for when we go get some to cook up. A very cool gift, as always.

-I summarized the Nativity story and we looked at a beautiful book when I laid Frankie down for bed. Just as I was wondering if any of it was getting through to him, he said “that’s so sad that the baby grows up and dies.” It brought tears to my eyes.

-On Christmas morning we awoke to the sound of Frankie playing with his new Geo-trax downstairs. (At our house, Santa sets everything up, ready to play with) We had discussed with him repeatedly not to go down without waking us up, but I guess we should have built a barricade.

-We had a lovely low-key Christmas day, and then we took off for the cabin that evening.

-Frankie finally gave playing in the snow a fair chance and he loved it. Sleighing was fun, but I think snowmobiling was his favorite.

-The cabin was lovely. It is great to spend time with family. I read an entire book, Jeremy played a new computer game, and we all ate a lot.

















I have a final piece of news. On Christmas Eve, Jeremy said to me jokingly "I got a bonus yesterday, and I was thinking about blowing it all and getting you a laptop." I said "If you're really ever going to blow a bonus I'd rather have a camera."
"Let's do it." He says.
"We shouldn't..." I say.
But we did.
My new Canon Rebel came today. I had a few minutes to play with it, and I can't wait to learn more. Picture taken at my house, in fairly low light, and no flash. (I was messing with the aperture priority settings.) I can't tell you how happy it makes me that it's mostly in focus and not grainy.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Name them one by one

Giving Thanks
(Forgive me, yesterday was crazy. And so I cheat.)

Starting in 2001, I began a Thankful list in the opening pages of my journal. At first I was adding to it often, but lately it's become my Thanksgiving tradition. It's fun to read through, because it's easy to tell what phase of my life is happening based on the happy parts of that phase.

Today I added items 241-265.

Before I added to my thankful list, I read my scriptures. I read in the Book of Mormon about a man named Amaleki, son of Abinadom. His writings in the book are short, and we don't learn much about him. But he bears his testimony and in it he says this "I shall exhort...all men to come unto God, the Holy One of Israel, and believe in...all things that are good; for there is nothing which is good save it comes from the Lord."



And I thought - that's it. That's the bottom line. I'm grateful for so many things, but in the end I am most grateful to know that it is the Lord who blesses me with them.



Here are a few items from my thankful list to finish off my 15 days.
14. Chocolate chip cookies
26. Packing for a trip
32. Clean sheets
41. Parents who are still in love
47. Checking the caller I.D. and seeing people called for me
63. The smell of oil paints
71. A sincere kiss
78. The clear night sky when it's cold
98. Missionary letters
103. Nieces and Nephews
113. Trampolines
147. The Messiah
149. Jeremy. A million times Jeremy
168. Knowing families are forever
179. Naps with a newborn
188. Creating, being creative
205. Frankies crazy, "evil genius" laugh
228. Laughing until I cry
246. Jeremy's smile lines around his eyes
255. Playing video games with Jerm
260. Hope

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Name them one by one

Giving Thanks:

Jeremy loves to laugh. He makes me laugh. He's helped me learn that even the hard things in life can have humor found in them, and that it's better to giggle then pout about it. I love watching him with Frankie, when he redirects a trauma and gets Frankie laughing instead.

I ran across these pictures on a recent upload, and I laughed until I had tears in my eyes.

I'm grateful for the healing power of laughter, and that I have a husband who has helped me heal many times.


Sunday, November 8, 2009

This is Halloween, (etc.)

Introducing the spookiest bat that ever spooked.
Although I much prefer the smiley bat.
If anyone told Frankie he was a good bat, or a cute bat, he would instantly say "No! I'm a spooky bat!" So apparently I lost that battle. The original costume plan included a little hat with bat ears, but it was pulling teeth to get him to try on the cape and wings when I was making the costume, I figured covering is his head was pushing our luck.

Frankie got to go Trick or Treating with his cousins.

A bat in the night!

He really loved the treat collecting, but we had a hard time keeping him focused. He was just as excited about the decorations as the candy. It was all pretty magical for him this year.

*****

In other news of random cuteness, on a recent morning Frankie hauled all his stuff from his bed downstairs and we found him laying on the floor in the living room like this. Jeremy woke up to him running up and down the stairs about 3 times, but I slept right through it.

And here's the story of Frankie's potty training. Exactly 2 weeks after I posted the picture on the blog, Frankie was sitting eating lunch and announced he needed to go potty. Afterwards I asked if he wanted a pull-up in case he wanted to go again. He said "no, the ones in the drawer with my socks." Those would be his underwear. He's been wearing them ever since, and has only had 3 accidents. End of story. Not bad, eh?
He's doing better now, but for the first bit he never wanted to put his pants back on. So we saw a lot of this

and this

running around the house.

I can't believe I have a little man. Not only am I not changing diapers, but he sprouted about an inch literally overnight. And all of the sudden his face looks more mature. I can imagine what he's going to look like all grown up. It's kind of trippy - but at least I know he'll be handsome. I love my kid.